About that disclaimer

So when the Amazon-/Review-gate thing was happening, there were RUMORS about the NY HOUSEWIVES all over the www. I posted some of them here, and hopefully made it clear that there is no way that I could know if they are true or not.
Some are just silly and some are not. I HOPE that we see more of BETHENNY this season, but there was a rumour that last night's episode was the last time that we'll see her 'till the reunion.
While I was looking for some info., I found this article in the NY Times from 1998, where BOBBY ZARIN was identified as "separated", and quoted about a single/mingle nightclub in Manhattan.
http://www.nytimes.com/1998/06/14/style/where-single-boomers-are-stayin-alive.html?pagewanted=all   
So I'm thinking that that, plus some other info. about JILL'S step-children seeming to have a great relationship that I found on the CREAKY JOINTS website, well, that leads me to NOT think of JILL as the HOMEWRECKER that she appeared to be a few weeks ago with all of the crazy stories out there?
That's why I added the disclaimer at the top of the page.
If I'm cynical and suspicious about the "reality" part of HOUSEWIVES,  I think I'm even more so about the goofy rumors.
I'm waiting for The HOUSEWIVES to admit to being "scripted reality", any minute now like THE HILLS does, but I guess that there is no rule that says they have to do that?
And I still cannot figure-out why KELLY would hide a stuttering problem if she had one? These women will exploit anything personal, and it could give her extra screen-time. Isn't that PR 101.5?